The short answer is: no.
For many people, death has become surrounded by mystery and discomfort. In Western society, it is often treated as a taboo subject, leaving families unaware of the choices available to them. Over time, the funeral industry has increasingly offered "complete service" packages, positioning itself as the default provider of every aspect of after-death care. While this convenience can be valuable, it has also led many families to assume they have no alternative, often without understanding what services are truly necessary or what they can do themselves.
In reality, families can choose to care for their loved one at home, wash and dress them, provide or build a coffin, transport them to a cemetery or crematorium, and plan or lead the funeral ceremony themselves. You can also choose to involve a funeral director in only those aspects where you want assistance. The level of involvement is entirely yours to decide.
Taking an active role can be a deeply personal, meaningful, and cost-effective experience. It allows families and communities to honour their loved one in ways that reflect their values and traditions.
By making conversations about death and dying a normal part of life, we hope to support a growing movement that empowers families to reclaim choice, understanding, and control over end-of-life care and funeral rituals.